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The True Meaning of Memorial Day

Many Americans are making big Memorial Day weekend plans—visiting family, having a backyard cookout, or checking out the big sales at their local car dealership. But don't forget to take some time out to remember what Memorial Day is all about, and find some way you can pay your respects.

The first specific “Memorial Day” observance was held after the American Civil War, to honor the 600,000 soldiers from both sides who died during that conflict. While Veteran's Day is a day to celebrate those in the armed forces who have served, Memorial Day is set aside to remember all the men and women who never returned home.

Here are some meaningful ways you can remember:

Take a moment. In December 2000, the “National Moment of Remembrance Act” was signed by President Bill Clinton. The Act specifies that every American should pause for one minute at 3 pm on every Memorial Day and reflect on the sacrifices made by those who have died defending our country.

Raise a Flag. On Memorial Day the flag is displayed at half-staff until noon, then at full-staff from noon to sunset. Even if you don’t have the space for a full sized flag, many supermarkets will have mini flags available that weekend. Purchase a few to place near the graves of friends or relatives, or near strangers' graves to honor them.

Donate blood. Or money. Or your time. Each year the American Red Cross provides more than 400,000 services to military members, veterans and civilians. Volunteer, give blood, or donate money—the Red Cross always needs our support.

Volunteer. There are other ways to help a well. Many volunteer opportunities are available with the USO, an organization devoted to lifting the spirits of our troops and honoring their service. Operation Gratitude has many volunteer programs available, such as writing letters to service members, or sending care packages. With a little online research, you can find many more veterans organizations that could always benefit from your time and effort.

Learn about our veterans. The Hometown Heroes website features stories and videos about the experiences and sacrifices of members of our armed forces. More inspiring stories can be found on the Wounded Warrior Project page.

And remember. There are many moving tributes available online. Andy Rooney, of 60 Minutes, did a piece on Memorial Day's True Meaning. Another must-see is “Voices of the Tomb”, a film about the guards at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.

Holiday sales and cookouts come and go; the sacrifices made by our armed forces last forever.  Take a moment to reflect and remember this Memorial Day.